Wedding March

The traditional church wedding features two bridal marches, by two different classical composers. The bride walks down the aisle to the majestic, moderately paced music of the “Bridal Chorus” from Richard Wagner’s 1848 opera “Lohengrin. The newlyweds exit to the more jubilant, upbeat strains of the “Wedding March” (From Felix Mendelssohn’s “A Midsummer Night’s Dream.”)

The custom dates back to the royal marriage, in 1858, of Victoria, princess of Great Britain, and Empress of Germany, to Prince Frederick William of Prussia. Victoria, eldest daughter of Britain’s Queen Victoria, selected the music herself. A patron of the arts, she valued the works of Mendelssohn and practically venerated those of Wagner. Given the British penchant for copying the monarchy, soon brides throughout the Isles, nobility and commoners alike, were marching to Victoria’s drummer, establishing a Western wedding tradition

You have set a budget, Now What?

What have you choosen that you have to have?

  1. Wedding Dress
  2. Tuxes
  3. Church
  4. Hall
  5. Flowers
  6. Caterer
  7. Wedding Cake
  8. Music
  • Now that you have chosen what you have to have, set a budget for each item.  Start with to most important item on your list and talk to a couple of the vendors in that group. 
  • Best way to find vendors is thru referrals, bridal shows, checking wedding sites on the Internet, etc.
  • Let the vendor know your budgeted price for that item.  Don’t be surprised if they say that they can’t do it for that price. Still see what they have to offer.  Go home, think about it.  If your really like the item, it is actually what you want, see where you can cut back on other items. 

On the wedding cake, check taste first.  Do you like the taste?  Will your guests like the taste?  Then go to looks.

What is 2010 bringing you?

Are you planning on losing weight?  Are you planning on saving more money? But most of all are you planning a wedding?

When planning a wedding you will first need to make a budget.  To do this:

  1. Check you finances
  2. Check with friends and family who have recently been married.
  3. Go to a Bridal Show to see what vendors are charging.
  4. Decide what you really want to have and what you could do without.
  5. Make a list: Want; have to have; could do without with approx prices.
  6. Now you can make a budget for your wedding.
  7. Most important:  DO NOT BORROW TO PAY FOR YOUR WEDDING. Do you really want to start out your married life with a $10,000+ debt which increases with finance charges or would you like to be able to buy your first house?

What is your favorite Christmas Memory?

Santa-Tree Cake-WebEven Santa likes my cakes.  I so enjoy this time of year.  Creating Christmas memories is right up there with creating Wedding memories.

What is your favorite Christmas memory or tradition?

Editable Christmas Stockings?

Stocking closeupKaren wanted a Christmas Stocking, so why not let her have it and eat it too.

I cut this out and added all kinds of candies in the stocking.  Would you believe that the Santa sucker is made of marshmellow?

Wouldn’t you love to have a cake like this?

Cake are suppose to be fun

Puppet Picture Cake-web  Ofcourse cakes are suppose to taste good, but most of all they are to be fun.

I put our puppeteers pictures on a cake for our puppeteer Christmas Party and they cut themselves out to eat.  They were have such a good time.  Now this is the weirdest cake cutting I have ever seen.

The Wedding Kiss

In almost all cultures the marriage ceremony ends with the bride and groom exchanging a kiss. The wedding kiss transcends cultures, it bridges tribes, it is one of the very few things that bind all of us together as human beings. From ancient times to the modern day, from the deepest jungles to the tallest skyscrapers, the wedding kiss symbolizes for all people everywhere the physical uniting of two souls.

Marriage is the strongest bond the world has ever known.

Marriage is a bringing together. It is a bringing together of two people, of two families, or two tribes, or two villages, or even two countries. Marriage is that powerful. Marriage is not something to be entered into lightly. Marriage is a pledge meant to last a lifetime.

Yet it is one of the unceasing marvels that we are able to express something as basic as love and marriage in so many wonderful and touching ways. Such is the wonder of human existence. The ceremonies and the traditions may be different, they may seem strange or outlandish or they may touch feelings in us that we never knew we had, but there is something about marriage that is instantly recognizable no matter what the language.

Promises

Marriage is the most solemn pledge we make in our lifetimes. Traditionally the wedding pledge is made in front of family and friends who take special pains to stand up and witness our pledge. The wedding pledge is to be true and faithful and loving to another human being. To wed is both the most basic of all human pledges, and at the same time the most sublime.

Marriage carries with it the most solemn of promises, but it also embodies the potential for the greatest joy of human existence – the pure joy that flows from two hearts beating as one. There are few joys in life as deep or as long lasting as the joy that springs from the well of true love and a lasting marriage.

Can you imagine being hit by a shoe?

The tradition of tying shoes to the back of the couple’s car stems from Tudor times. Back then, guests would throw shoes at the bride and groom. If they or their carriage were hit, it meant good luck was bestowed upon them. In Anglo Saxon times, to establish his authority the groom symbolically struck the bride with a shoe. Brides would then throw a shoe at the bridesmaids to see who would marry next. Makes you appreciate the bouquet toss, doesn’t it? 

Throwing old shoes after the bride is a sign that authority is being transferred from the bride’s father to her new husband. A variation is for the bride’s father to throw her shoe after the groom as a token of his surrender of his daughter.