My mother-in-law wants to hand out drink tickets to keep people from getting too drunk at the wedding. That’s seems really tacky to me. Is it?
No offense to your mother-in-law, but that is tacky. Tell her you trust your guests to behave like grown-ups, not college freshmen. If the reasoning behind the tickets is to cut cost, you can go with a reduced bar or serve only wine, beer and a signature cocktails.
My personal choice is to serve house wine and let guest know you have a limited cash bar or no alcohol at all.
It is traditional for the groom’s family to foot the bill for the drinks. If this is true in your case, remember it is her decision so be nice with your suggestions.




Airlines require that the name on your photo ID and/or passport matches the name on your ticket (No special consideration for newlyweds), and you can’t change your IDs until after wedding.


The bridal veil has long been a symbol of youth, modesty, and virginity and was used to ward off evil.
